According to our dearest wikipedia, “Agape” the Greek word, translated into English is known as “Love”. Yes, us the IP1s had a fun-filled and lovely week last week.
On Monday, we went to East Coast Park where we kickstarted the events of Agape week. The theme was “Know Thyself” and we sat along the beach reading stories in our Agape booklet. The story “Realer than You” by Christopher Barzak really touched my heart. It was about this boy, Elijah from America having to migrate to Japan and how he was unable to adapt. A series of events actually happened and in order not to spoil the story I shall not tell you the ending!!
From the story, I learnt that people put on masks to protect themselves or to make themselves more popular or for other reasons. This makes them very “fake” and the person would most likely be uncomfortable, not being able to be his/her true self. One should always be comfortable with the image/personality you present to others or there may be dire consequences like suicide. This session allowed us to reflect on ourselves, whether we put on masks and whether we are comfortable with ourselves.
Then we had a talk by Ms Dilys from Eka training on “Beauty WithIn and WithOut” where she told us about inner and external beauty. People can be easily made beautiful externally, through means like make-up, digital imaging and plastic surgery. External beauty may be important but isn’t internal beauty of greater significance? What we see may not be the truth and it is most important to be happy.
Following that, we went to Plaza Sing for our <<1911>> movie. The whole theatre was filled with IP1s and IP2s. The movie was about the revolution in China in 1911, and Dr Sun Yat Sen’s contributions. It was quite a good movie and those who are interested in China history should go catch it!
On Tuesday and Wednesday, we had workshops on “Blood Ties”, “5 Love Languages” and Agape forum. For the “Blood Ties” workshop, we learnt that minor arguments can strain relationships and different parents have different ways of controlling and nurturing their children. The “I” message is useful when you want to express your emotions without using “you” which can be quite accusing.
Do you know about the 5 love languages? If yes good for you, if no the 5 love languages are ways that we show our love or feel loved. The 5 love languages are 1. Quality time 2. Words of Affirmation 3. Acts of service 4. Gifts 5. Touch (non-intimate). It is good to find out your love language and others’, so you will know how to show your love for others.
We also had a talk on image mastery by Ms Jill Lowe. She taught us about the three stages of beauty: lusting beauty, lingering beauty and lasting beauty. Of course lasting beauty is the best stage of all and we also learnt how our hair, footwork, clothes style and colour affect our image and how people see us. It was a really interesting session as we got to know more about fashion trends and listen to the experienced Ms Lowe and her life events.
Thursday must have been everyone’s favourite day. We all went to Cedar Girls’ School to cook! The dishes cooked were seafood pasta with marinara sauce, tomato and mozarella lasagne, corn and yellow pepper bisque and chocolate fondant! Sounds very delicious doesn’t it? I bet everyone loved the chocolate fondants the most! Of course there was learning through the process too! We had to work in sixes to prepare the dishes. This allowed us to experience teamwork with people from different classes with it not in the project work context. After the cooking session in Cedar, we had a “movie with friends” session where we went to watch movies with our friends!
Finally came the last day and we were all quite sad that Agape week was ending and next would be the return of scripts. Oh the horror! The girls and guys each had a session on growing up, into women and men.
Mrs Chua used various artistes’ examples like Selena Gomez and Lindsay Lohan etc to show us the transition of a girl to a woman and how the metamorphosis may go wrong somewhere and instead of a butterfly, a moth is created. She also let us listen to a very very very old song by Britney Spears “I’m not a girl, not yet a woman”. Ms Chua gave us useful advice and I especially found the survey through sms at the end of the session very cool.
Agape week may have ended but I’m sure most of us have benefited from the various talks and workshops. It has been a really enriching week and now it is time to prepare for VIP Symposium 2011!
Here is the video I\’m not a girl, not yet a woman (click on the link) Enjoy!